Is Picky Eating Costing You More Than You Think? Uncover the Solutions

cost of picky eating

Picture this: dinnertime arrives, a masterpiece of colorful vegetables and a perfectly seasoned protein sit on the table. But across from you, your child stares at their plate with a furrowed brow. The broccoli florets seem to mock them, the carrots a foreign land they refuse to explore. This scenario, the frustration of picky eating, is a familiar one for many families. But beyond the nightly battles and uneaten meals, lies a hidden cost of picky eating – a cost that impacts your wallet and your child’s health.

As parents, we’re always juggling priorities, and one of the trickier ones is managing the dining habits of a picky eater. If you’re nodding along, knowing the frustration of preparing a meal only to see it pushed around the plate or outright refused, you’re not alone. Children’s eating behaviors, including picky eating habits, can be particularly challenging. But beyond the frustration, have you ever considered the real cost of picky eating? It’s not just about uneaten broccoli or the sighs around the table—it’s about money, and surprisingly more than just a few cents. Picky eating can also have significant consequences for a child’s diet, including poor dietary variety and low intakes of essential nutrients like iron and zinc.

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Food Waste Adds Up: The Financial Toll of Fussy Eaters

First, let’s talk about food waste. It’s easy to dismiss a few spoonfuls here and there, but when you start to tally it up, it becomes a considerable expense. Imagine you spend about $200 on groceries each week. If your picky eater isn’t touching at least one food on their plate, that’s $40 per week spiraling down the drain. Over a year, you’re looking at over $2,000 in food that ends up in the trash instead of nourishing your child. To mitigate this, it’s crucial to provide a balanced meal, including at least one food the child usually likes, to ensure there is something they can eat. That’s not just food waste; it’s wallet waste!

The Dining Out Dilemma: Impact on Family Meals

Then, consider those times you decide to skip the kitchen for a restaurant, because sometimes you just need a night away from cooking! If your family eats out a couple of times a week, spending around $60 each meal, and again, if 25% of that food isn’t eaten, the math isn’t pretty. If your child eats only a small portion or refuses the meal, that’s $15 per meal wasted, adding up to about $1,560 a year on restaurant bills for food that never gets eaten. Eating out should be a treat, not a financial burden with a side of leftovers.

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Beyond Food Waste: Feeding Therapy Costs for Children’s Eating Behaviors

For some families, picky eating goes beyond a minor inconvenience and steps into the territory where professional help is needed. Feeding therapy is an excellent resource for addressing child eating behaviors, but it’s not without its costs. Even with insurance, you might be looking at a co-pay of $30 per session. Weekly visits? That’s another $1,560 per year invested in attempting to resolve the picky eating puzzle. Feeding therapy often implements valuable strategies, such as creating “no-pressure” meals and fostering a positive dining environment, to encourage children to explore new foods.

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The Nutritional Impact of Picky Eating

While the financial consequences are significant, the true cost of picky eating lies in its impact on your child’s health. A balanced diet is crucial for a child’s development, providing them with the essential nutrients they need to grow strong and healthy. However, picky eating can significantly limit the variety of foods a child consumes, potentially leading to deficiencies in vital vitamins and minerals.

For example, a child who consistently avoids vegetables might miss out on vital sources of Vitamin A, essential for healthy vision and immune function. Similarly, a child who refuses fruits might be lacking in Vitamin C, which plays a critical role in collagen production and wound healing.

The long-term effects of a limited diet can manifest in a variety of ways, from weakened immune systems and fatigue to growth delays and even developmental problems.

The Emotional Toll of Picky Eating Battles

Beyond the financial and nutritional impact, picky eating can also take an emotional toll on families. Mealtimes, which should be a time for connection and enjoyment, can become a battleground filled with frustration and stress. This constant struggle can strain family relationships and leave parents feeling helpless and discouraged.

Furthermore, children who are picky eaters can feel isolated and embarrassed, especially in social settings where they might be hesitant to try new foods offered at a friend’s house or during a school lunch.

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Addressing the Root Cause: Why Are Kids Picky Eaters?

Understanding the reasons behind picky eating can be the first step towards addressing the issue. Some common culprits include:

  • Neophobia:A fear of new things, which includes new foods. This is particularly common in toddlers and young children.

  • Sensory Sensitivity: Some children have a heightened sensitivity to taste, texture, or smell, making them averse to certain foods.

  • Negative Mealtime Experiences: Force-feeding, pressure at mealtimes, and past negative food experiences like severe reflux, food allergies, vomiting or choking can create a negative association with food.

  • Lack of Exposure: If children are not exposed to a variety of foods from a young age, they might develop a preference for familiar options and resist trying anything new.
  • Oral Motor: When children have trouble moving food around their mouth comfortably and safely, can also create a negative food experience! Kids who need multiple swallows to clear their mouth of food, chew only on one side, chew only soft easy to break down foods are some red flags.

Total Impact

When you add it all up — $2,080 on wasted groceries, $1,560 on partially eaten restaurant meals, and $1,560 on therapy — we’re talking about an eye-watering total of $5,200 each year. That’s a significant chunk of change that could be spent on family vacations, savings, or even investing in experiences that enrich your family’s life far beyond the dinner table. Additionally, focusing on offering a variety of healthy foods can help improve children’s eating behaviors and reduce the financial burden associated with picky eating.

thousands of dollars spent on picky eaters

Make a Change with Unlocking Mealtimes: Fearful To Foodie Transformation Program

If these numbers have you rethinking your approach to your child’s picky eating habits, you’re not alone. It’s why we created Unlocking Mealtimes. Our community and resources are tailored to help families like yours transform mealtime from a battle zone to a peaceful, nourishing part of the day. By joining us, you’re not just reclaiming your grocery budget — you’re reclaiming joy at your family table. This program will pay for itself many times over with the food savings you will experience with your kids eating what you eat at home. The goal with this course is to identify your child’s issues with food across the 4 pillars of feeding, create a custom made plan just for your child with our Mealtime Roadmap, and then step by step, we teach parents how to break the negative food cycle and teach kids to start loving food. Encouraging children to try new foods is crucial in overcoming picky eating and creating a positive mealtime environment.

By joining our supportive community, you’ll gain access to valuable tools and strategies:

Uncover the Root Cause:
  • Learn the common roadblocks that contribute to picky eating in children.
  • Understand how to create an environment that promotes successful mealtimes.
  • Get a complete in depth gut profile to see how your child digests food, and if they have the correct balance of bacteria without a side of parasites and yeast overgrowth
  • Discover the mindset shifts necessary to motivate your child towards trying new foods.
Develop Practical Strategies:
  • Explore the role of oral motor skills in successful eating and learn strategies to improve them.
  • Get practical tips you can implement right away to deal with picky eating behaviors.
  • Learn how to encourage your child to explore food beyond just taking one bite.
  • Learn your child’s sensory profile, so you know exactly which foods to try next and how to problem solve according to their sensory system. 
Personalized Guidance:
  • Schedule a 1:1 virtual meeting to discuss your child’s specific feeding history and challenges.
  • Receive a customized roadmap tailored to your child’s needs, highlighting key areas of focus.
Lifetime Resources:
  • Gain access to an on-demand course with over 50 lessons, bonus videos, and downloadable materials. 
  • Utilize worksheets and journal prompts to track progress and gain insights.
  • Benefit from seven 30-minute follow-up calls to address any ongoing concerns.
  • Access our exclusive subliminal messages designed to encourage positive eating habits in your child.
Bonus Incentives (for full payment):
    • Learn plating strategies to make food more visually appealing.
    • Schedule an extra, hour-long call for more in-depth support.

With Unlocking Mealtimes, you can create a positive and lasting change in your child’s relationship with food. By investing in this program, you’re not just saving money on wasted groceries – you’re investing in your child’s health, happiness, and a lifetime of healthy eating habits.

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